Music and sex are an important part of our lives. There are many who can’t imagine living without the two. However, did you know about the effects of music on our brains? Have you ever thought about what exactly makes us feel when we listen to music? What kind of effect does it have during intercourse?
Here, we will go through some of the reasons why people love music and how it may affect your sex life.
Sex and Music as a Form of Art
Sex and music are often connected because both can be considered forms of art. Musical preferences can also have an important impact on how we perceive a person, and young people love finding someone with a similar musical taste. For some, sex is almost a chore. They just want to get it over with.
There are many others who will agree that a sexual encounter is a form of art. There is something unique about being intimate with another person. Since each of us is different, it can be fun exploring other people’s interests, kinks, and pleasures.
People have been obsessing about naked bodies for ages, and they are considered the highest form of art by some. Our bodies are beautiful, and it is more than obvious why painters had nude models as their primary inspiration. Religions teach us that body is a temple, that sex is divine, and that it is one of the ways to become one with the universe.
Whatever you believe in, one thing is certain — sex is art. If you combine it with music, it is apparent how it might increase pleasure and deepen the connection between two people. Many people across the world enjoy listening to music during sex. They create special sex playlists, and they are mostly based on what they (and their partner) enjoy.
Music Brings You Closer Together
It is not a secret that music brings people together. If you’ve ever been to a concert of a band you really love, you have probably noticed you had a special connection with hundreds of people at the same time. This is because all of you share the same passion; everyone is there with the same goal — to enjoy the music.
For some, taste in music is rather important when choosing a partner, and there are many who wouldn’t dream of starting a relationship with someone with a different taste. At the same time, we often feel attraction towards people that share our opinions and tastes. This doesn’t necessarily have to be sexual attraction, but more of a connection between two people.
If you meet a person that likes the same music genre as you do, there are so many things you can talk to them about. It is highly unlikely that you will run out of topics to discuss. These are just some of the ways music can bring people together. It is more than obvious why someone would want their significant other to share the same interests, and it also applies to specific music genres.
Naturally, taste in music isn’t the most important thing in the world when it comes to relationships, but it just shows how important music is for our lives, relationships, and love.
It Heightens Your Feelings and the Sensation
Music is often associated with happy hormones like dopamine and endorphins. If you are listening to music while having sex, there is a chance that it will further increase pleasure and satisfaction. Music can help you heighten your feelings and sensations, and the overall experience will be unforgettable.
Since the sixties, music has been associated with sex. You probably heard that famous “sex, drugs, and rock ‘n’ roll” adage, and it just shows that people started seeing them together. Of course, since drugs are mostly illegal at the moment, that doesn’t mean that the fun ends. You are still left with sex and rock ‘n’ roll.
According to recent research, sex and music (and drugs) affect the same part of the brain. To make things interesting, scientists tested a theory. They found a group of people and temporarily blocked the natural substances that create pleasure. The results show that when people listened to their favorite songs, they felt nothing. It just isn’t the same if there are no happy chemicals in the brain to tell us to feel good.
This is the primary reason why people enjoy having sex and listening to music at the same time. The same thing applies to exercise. You have probably seen many people go to the gym wearing earphones. The happy chemicals in the brain will help them feel less tired, have a higher tolerance for pain, and have more fun while exercising.
So the best way to improve sex (not that it needs improving) is to listen to music and create a sexy playlist.
It’s a Good Way to Have Sex Through the Beat
Based on the music you listen to, it might be interesting to play with the beat. While having fun with your partner, you might notice that the tempo will play an important role in it. If you love listening to black metal, this might not be as exciting as for other people.
For all of you wondering what the right tempo is, there is an answer. According to a recent study, the best BPM (beats per minute) for lovemaking is 119. Scientists have analyzed thousands of different songs, and it turns out that this is the optimal number. One of the songs that have exactly this tempo is Bad Romance by Lady Gaga.
Interestingly, they also analyzed the top 20 sexy songs and noticed that the BPM is slightly lower than ideal, standing at 110. However, this doesn’t mean that you need to listen to specific music to get your dose of dopamine. There is a chance that you will enjoy the most popular songs for sex, but the safest option is to create a playlist by yourself.
Find songs you and your partner will enjoy and just have fun. For some people, the ideal song for sex might be Blue Jeans Blues by ZZ Top or Wicked Game by Chris Isaak, while others would rather listen to Fear of the Dark by Iron Maiden. So stop listening to what other people enjoy and find what will set the mood for you and your significant other.